We’re so excited for Hawaii!
We can’t wait to celebrate our special day with YOU
October 17th
Our Wedding Day
Hawaii Polo Club
68-411 Farrington Highway
3PM – 10PM
Dress/Theme: We’re asking our guests to come dressed in neutrals/pastels/soft colors for the ceremony. We know we’ve confused many of you, so here’s a few lewks as inspiration:
Pintrest Board
Transport: A bus from the Kaimana Beach Hotel, will transport our out of town* guests, to and from the wedding venue. The bus will leave promptly at 2pm, so please arrive on time (you know who you are lol)!! We kindly ask locals, friends and family, as well as friends familiar with the Island, to arrange their own transport. Free parking is available on the polo field.
*Out of town = England / Nashville / NY/LA crew.
Weather/Conditions: Heads up, the 30 minute wedding ceremony will be on the beach. We’re expecting weather around 80° F / 26° C. With that in mind, we’ll have a station with sun lotion, slippers (flip flops if you’re a Brit) and fans to keep you cool. The ocean can mean things get a lil breezy at times.
Afterparty: Fun at the venue ends at 10pm. We would love for you to Join us at Hula’s, one of our favorite local gay bars from 11pm -2am. #shakethatass
Our Weekend Events
Thursday
10.17
Get ready to soak up the sun and celebrate your boys’ love at the Hawaii Polo Club in Honolulu! Our beachfront ceremony will be followed by an evening of dinner, cocktails, dancing, and some cute Hawaiian surprises.
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Time: 3pm -10pm
Wedding Ceremony
Mokuleia Polo Field
68-411 Farrington Highway
Friday
10.18
Join us poolside at the Elks Lodge! Let’s soak up the sun, sip a few cocktails, and watch the sunset together. A perfect way to relax and recover from Friday’s wedding festivities. No stress, drop in if and when you can.
Time: 2pm – 8pm
Pool Day & Sunset Cocktails
Elks Lodge
2933 Kalākaua Avenue
Saturday
10.19
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Bring your speedos and bikinis as we wrap up the wedding fun with a hang at Kaimana Beach. We’ll keep you fed and watered with some Hawaiian bites, cool drinks, and plenty of sunshine. Also…It’s Honolulu Pride this same weekend, so of course we’re excited to celebrate with you. Drop in if and when you can.
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Time: 2pm-6pm
Beach Day & Honolulu Pride
Kaimana Beach
2863 Kalakaua Avenue
Still need to book your stay!? We’ve got you covered!
Here’s a guide to hotels, our wedding activities and fun things to do on the island.
View our favorite hotels…
Wedding Events
Check out our wedding weekend festivities schedule…
FAQs & recommendations for the best spots on the island!..
Book Your Stay
Kaimana Beach
Dive into the serenity of Kaimana Beach, a hidden gem just beyond Waikiki’s hustle. Its chill vibes, golden sands, and crystal-clear waters make it the ultimate spot for our Honolulu wedding.
We secured a sweet room block rate at this hotel, plus it’s walkable to the weekend’s events! (The grooms will also be at this hotel!)
Call or mail Alexia (details below) and quote: 2410MAKANA to book with our special rates.
Special rates from:
$196/night
✓ Beachfront location
✓ Super cute interior
✓ Gorgeous views
Average Rate:
$459/night
✓ Luxury
✓ Private
✓ 5-star resort
The Royal Hawaiian
Feel the vibe of Waikiki’s heartbeat at the Royal Hawaiian Hotel. Its iconic pink walls and breathtaking ocean views set the stage for our dream wedding in paradise.
White Sands Hotel
In the heart of Waikiki, White Sands Hotel is your vibrant escape. Embrace modern comfort and island vibes, ideal for younger guests eager to immerse themselves in Hawaii’s lively energy during the wedding celebrations.
Average Rate:
$212/night
✓ Central
✓ Lively
✓ Great pool vibes
Theme? Is there a theme?
We’re gay, so of course we have a theme! We’re asking guests to dress in neutrals for the wedding ceremony. Need help with the theme? Check out this pinterest!
Alexa, how’s the weather?
Get ready for some sun! October in Honolulu usually reaches highs of 80º and lows of 70ºs.
What about the kids?
While we love all your little ones, this will be a kid free wedding. So plan a babysitter so you can let your hair down.
Dietary Restrictions?
We’ll provide delicious food for all, so just share and requests/restrictions when you RSVP and we’ll take care of you.
Gifts?
If you’d like to contribute to our honeymoon fund, you can do so here: here
Will the ceremony be inside or outside?
The ceremony will be on the beach, so dress accordingly. We’ll have a cute station with sun lotion, slippers (flip flops if you’re a Brit) and fans to keep you cool.
What’s the easiest way to reach the wedding venue?
For ‘out of towners’, a bus will depart from the Kaimana hotel at 2pm, arriving at the polo field at 3pm.
For locals, there is parking available on the polo filed.
Which airport do I fly into?
When looking up flights, look for Daniel K. Inouye International Airport. For our Brits, you can either fly to NYC / L.A and take a second flight to Honolulu.
Recommendations
Here’s some of our favorite things to do when we’re in Hawaii.
Beaches…
Waimea Bay: Hang out at Waimea Bay, the North Shore’s hotspot with killer views and a cliff you can totally jump off if you’re feeling brave.
Lanikai Beach: Get your IG game on at Lanikai Beach! It’s like stepping into a postcard with its white sand and super clear water. Plus, you’ve got those cool islands in the background!
Hanauma Bay Nature Preserve: Ready to snorkel with the fishies? Hanauma Bay’s got you covered! It’s like swimming in a rainbow with all those coral reefs and marine critters.
Makapu’u Beach: Catch some waves or just chill on the sand. Those cliffs are epic, the sand’s super soft, and the water’s perfect for some serious bodyboarding action.
Kahala Beach: Need a break from the crowd? Kahala Beach is your spot. It’s peaceful, the waves are gentle, and you’ve got killer views of Diamond Head and the ocean.
Eats…
Leonard’s Bakery: If you’re in Honolulu, you gotta hit up Leonard’s Bakery! Their malasadas are legendary – fluffy, sugary goodness that’ll have you coming back for more.
Diamond Head Grill: Hungry for some fusion? Diamond Head Grill is the spot! Get ready for a taste bud adventure with local Hawaiian flavors mixed with international flair, all while soaking in those killer Diamond Head views.
Ono Seafood: Craving poke? Ono Seafood is where it’s at! It’s like a hidden treasure for poke lovers, with the freshest fish and toppings that’ll make your taste buds dance.
Roy’s: For a classy dining experience, Roy’s is where it’s at! Dive into Hawaiian fusion cuisine with a modern twist, all while soaking in stunning ocean views and enjoying top-notch service.
Duke’s: Hang loose at Duke’s in Waikiki! This beachfront spot is a local favorite, with chill vibes, live tunes, and mouthwatering Hawaiian dishes. Don’t miss out on their fresh seafood and killer cocktails!
The Pig and The Lady: Craving something bold and unique? Head to The Pig and The Lady! Their Vietnamese-inspired dishes are next level, bursting with flavor from locally sourced ingredients.
More…
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The Diamond Head Hike: Calling all adventurers! Take on the Diamond Head Hike for jaw-dropping views of Waikiki and the sparkling Pacific Ocean from atop a volcanic crater. It’s an outdoor experience you’ll never forget!
The Pali Lookout: Prepare to be amazed at the Pali Lookout! Marvel at panoramic views of the majestic Koolau mountain range and the windward coast of Oahu, offering a breathtaking glimpse into the island’s natural beauty.
Iolani Palace: Dive into Hawaiian history at Iolani Palace! Explore the proud symbol of Hawaiian monarchy and immerse yourself in the islands’ royal heritage with a captivating journey through time.
The Honolulu Museum of Art: Get your culture fix at the Honolulu Museum of Art! Located in the heart of Honolulu, it’s a treasure trove showcasing diverse art collections from ancient to contemporary, with a special focus on Asian and Pacific Island cultures.
